Question what you want and whom you want. You have every right to question. Unless you do, you don't get answers and some times those answers are not enough to satisfy you and its fine. There is nothing readymade in life. There no accidents in life because everything happens for a reason. Its all about connecting the dots and when you connect it backwards you will the know the reason as to why some things happen in life.
Bad things happen. Pain is meant to happen, it is inevitable. Even gods were not spared, how come we will be spared..?? Pain is more important than happiness. Pain teaches you how to live your life, happiness just happens. By questioning you show your attitude, by accepting things you lose it. Don't just accept things, first question and then accept. That's a much better way. There is only one way to live life, that is to live positively. By default we are meant to be happy everything else is what we choose. Be the right one, be the better one. If you can look beyond pain, you will be closer to god, closer to oneself. If you want inspiration just look at nature, its ways and means. There is none better than Nature to teach us how to lead a life.
If you think others are really happy, then you are mistaken. Always compare yourself with the have-nots and then see how lucky you are. There is no time to satisfy others. Never ever do the mistake of satisfying or pleasing everyone by saying dharma and all those stuff. Your life is already written as how you gonna live it, only thing is that you don't know it. That is what makes life interesting, isn't it...? Otherwise how will you understand the importance of small things, happiness, kindness and other values. If you are meant to become someone then you will be, its just a matter of time. Everything looks dark in sunglasses, so just remove it to see the best thing. If life is short for sadness it is indeed for happiness also.
Nature is raw. It is how it was and will remain so. The only thing that changes are the way we human beings live and look at life. Nothing in life is simple neither it is complicated. Its all in the way you look at things. If you want to blame you can, but how long. Somewhere you need to find the path that suits you. Sure there will be people who get hurt by your actions but that is how it is and that is how it should be. Just imagine if everyone accepts everything then there is nothing to live for. Think about it. One day, the dear ones will not be dear, close ones will leave you and you are all by yourself, so just bare it all because who hate you will continue to do so. As a man who was born with no hands and legs said (one of my favourite quote), "If God doesn't reduce my Pain, I will do it Myself"
Image Source: Google Images