Lost My Soul

Being a guy I feel ashamed when a rape is reported somewhere in India. You just took the right of a girl to live her own life. Its a shame. I don't know what to say. The people who rape, I mean why don't you just stop before doing that heinous act. Dude, someone's life is at stake. As a guy I may not exactly understand what a girl goes through when someone rapes her, but can perfectly understand that its a act that is beyond forgiveness. 

Guys, why do you do like that. I mean just think for a second. Tomorrow in that unknown girl's place your mother or sister or wife or any other dear one might be there. Do you wish to rape your own mother or sister, answer me..?? A man's character is determined as to how he treats a women. Forget about all the authorities, I want to directly ask the person who raped the girl. Until and unless the person morally stops doing that no law or authority can do anything. 

Always address the source of the problem. I want to question the rapist's mother or sister or girl friend as to what they have to say about the rape. Hold that rapist's collar and handover him to police. Just imagining that someone was raped makes me feel so angry and can imagine what a girl goes through when it actually happens. 

I have a suggestion for all the girls/women/ladies, please do take someone with you wherever it is possible to take them. It is always better to be careful than to crib later as to why I didn't do that. The more we keep on talking about the authorities, the more they come up with shit reasons which are not worth mentioning here. Yes, the authorities are to be blamed for not carrying out their duties. But till they act, many more innocent girls would have been raped and dumped.

Be prepared yourself. The authorities will come only after everything has happened. A girl lost her soul and the guy walks way. Assume he gets some years in jail, then what...?? After he comes out of the jail he goes on with his life, what about the girl...?? It's not like that the rape stigma or scar will be temporary, its scar which will literally kill a girl from inside every single day for the rest of her life.

Self protection is the only way forward. Learn some martial arts or karate or something like that. It is for your own good. You not only protect your own life but will also help and inspire other women to learn those things. Dear rapist, just by touching her against her wish, you just lost your character. Being a guy, I shall promise that whatever is possible from my side in whichever it is I will try my best to prevent these things from happening.


At last I would like to conclude what a raped soul might have said,
"I cried, I was forced, I was pushed, I was helpless and nowhere to go, I.......I just lost my Soul....."

Keep Smiling,

Prashanth.