As we step into a new year, we can be sure that everyone would have learnt something important in the year 2012. No matter whatever has happened to you in 2012, good or bad, lets just accept that it was a great learning experience, at least for me.
There is always time for a new beginning. Time to start new things, which was not possible earlier. Let’s just start on a positive note, with positive thoughts in mind and believe that 2013 will be a good one.
Always believe that things will work out your way. Never give up on what you wanted to do. Yes, it is true that things may not and will not happen the way we want to, but we can all try in our own ways to make it happen. The power is with us. Just imagine, if only things happened the way we all wanted to, then there is no fun in living a Life. Life doesn’t excite you then, at least that’s what I feel. Let God decide what and how he wants us to learn things and we will all gear up for the challenge. Let him throw any difficulty and we will try our best to deal with it.
God wants us to learn things and sometimes in a hard way, so be it. Let the positivity in us shall not stop, come what may. If things don’t go as you thought or planned, don’t be disheartened. Your time will come and this is true. We all have only one life; we need to decide how we want to live it. Stop carrying the burden of the past wherever you go and whatever you do, it’s a huge burden and it pulls you back all the time. Let we not forget the past, but lets also not give it so much importance. Let the past incidents remind us that things will be bad and we need to learn from it.
There will be people who will you rip you apart, take you for granted, hurt you more, make you sad, some will break your heart but don’t ever give up on yourself. At the end of the day, what you decide to do and how you want to deal with it will decide your fate. You create your destiny. Lets not give an option for others to decide your destiny.
Always be hopeful, optimistic and positive. Positive thoughts can overcome any problem or any difficult situation. Being positive and optimistic doesn’t mean you are running away from the reality. Some things are under our control and some others are not. We need to worry only about things, which we can change. We can’t do much about things, which are out of our reach. This is where positivity helps. No one can guarantee that two friends will be forever. Some people will move out of your life as you move on. If someone leaves you, so be it. If you keep thinking about it, then you are just wasting your time and the other person would be happily living his/her life.
One of the worst things we do is to please everyone or at least try to do so. This is the biggest blunder one can commit. Sometimes we need to take tough decisions; otherwise life is not worth living. Once you take a decision, stick with it. Forget about what others will say including your parents and dear ones. It is your confidence that matters here. People will get hurt sometimes, so be it. This happens because everyone perceives a situation in a different way. There is not standard format to do things.
Ask questions and keep asking them. Some will feel bad, some will appreciate it and some will ignore you. You need to think deep to find an answer about life. People will brand you as they feel like. People don’t play a part in your life unless you let them do so. Some people live a fake life. A life in which they pretend to be happy but they will be dying every single day from inside. Don't ever compromise on the principles you believe in, because that is what defines you and that is who you are.
Don’t blame yourself all the time. It will kill from inside. If you do want to blame then think about how to overcome the mistake that you have done. Whatever I have said above is what I follow every single day. Yes, I try my best and I don’t know how to fake, because I know its not going to last long. I have no time for negative thoughts or for people who keep thinking negative all the time. Being positive is not easy. You need to work for it.
As we start a new year, you need to ask yourself only one question, “There is always time for a New Beginning; Do I want to Start Now?”
One of my favourite videos from the movie, The Dark Knight Rises. This video inspires me. Courtesy: Youtube.